Your life may not be productive every passing moment, and one
has no right or need to expect it to be. Some useless discussions, stories or passing
comments make for memories that stand stronger than the supposedly idealistic
topics like politics, life, world and much bigger things (again
supposedly). Perceiving life to be productive by means of talking and reading
only the most knowledgeable stuff, is the by-product of self-inflated
thinking. You deem yourself suitable
only to discuss about the matters that flash on TV screens or things that can
be associated to soul-searching, or in a nut-shell, things that are commonly
perceived as damn serious! That’s pointless because not everyone is like you
and while you had the opportunity to enjoy some conversations, you wasted those
moments because you were more focused about your standards even as trying to
relate and judge the topic being discussed and the person who speaks in
front of you. Too much of useless scrutiny that killed the moments! That’s what
I’d say!
Being enraged, rebellious, sympathetic or sad about the fate
of humanity or about the political scenarios (that are unchangeable) doesn’t
bring us any good; at least not always. Where is happiness in those moments?
Food and shelter are the primary needs for a living, but talk about feelings
and the ones that stand out from the rest, are love and happiness. You don’t have to be the genius or a knowledgeable
guy who can talk about anything – instead you should be the person who brings in
an aura of happiness to the table, or someone capable of being a part of that
happy group at least, rather than being judgmental and premeditating your mind
that you are not going to indulge in some discussions that you deem are junk. Some junk food are
unavoidable no matter how much we resist it right – that’s our appetite
governed by the ground rule of life! We need it for a change. Similarly, we need some useless articles to
spice things up in life too! It’s our choice, and nothing makes sense in fact –
even your existence! We are like visitors on planet earth – all we have to do
is choose happiness over things that are detrimental to our peace of mind.
If possible, you should be able to gift smiles to people.
Those moments really count. Help as much as you can if it brings you happiness.
But do not focus on proving your point or proving who you are every time. Not
everything you do should make sense. At least once in a while, you should
loosen the strings attached to your spirit and cut it loose. Laughing and
watching others laugh is a different phenomenon that is unique and powerful.
There is a vibe that helps you charge your thought process with loads of
positivity. Do not miss that! (Conditions applied: Too much of it can kill your
productivity too.)
Coming back to the point, write to express your opinions, but
never do it to enforce them. Have a different or a unique and unbiased point of
view, but don’t hate or treat the people who are different from you with pity.
They are who they are. Don’t convert every moment that you breathe to boast and
brag about your knowledge and viewpoints, unless it helps the other person.
Even if it is all about helping, you should feel free once in a while. You
should reduce the flames and learn to laugh! Don’t stress yourself too much
with serious topics – at times bluff and junk that makes you laugh and look
stupid, helps to ease the burden of survival and hence brings out the best in
you while you are still alive to breath!
It’s all about how you nurture your thought process! Don’t
fuck up your mind for no reason, and breathe free! Don’t be so serious. Be one
among the common folks rather than convincing yourself that you are different!
If you are different, that will show when the time is right!
